New Delhi | November 19: Do you feel it’s hard for a person to love you? Or is it that there is a person whom it’s uneasy to love? There are some individuals who are important in our life but they tend to hurt us at various points due to their traits which makes them ‘hard to love’.
Look, we can’t deny the fact that their traits hurt us but it doesn’t mean we can’t do a bit of things which will make them and us feel good, better and best. Being an Astro Lover, you know nothing is impossible in this world as the immense energy of this giant universe is screaming out loud to inculcate happiness in our life.
So let’s explore the signs which are ‘hard to love’ but also gather facts on ‘how to love them’.
1. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Why They’re Hard to Love:
Being a Virgo myself, I can definitely tell with my experience, Virgos are perfectionists who tend to overanalyse everything, from emotions to possessiveness. They have high standards, both for themselves and others, which can make relationships, feel like a constant test.
How to Love Them:
Show them that imperfection is beautiful. Appreciate their thoughtfulness and reassure them that love doesn’t need to be flawless to be real.
2. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Why They’re Hard to Love:
These deeply passionate signs are fiercely guarded and their intensity can come off as possessive, which has tendency to create hindrances in a relationship.
How to Love Them:
The biggest therapy is to remain honest and patient with them. Once a Scorpio trusts you, their loyalty is unmatched, and their love is deeply transformative.
3. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Why They’re Hard to Love:
Its not an easy task to love a person with ‘independent thoughts’. They are independent thinkers who value freedom above all, making them emotionally detached with everyone, as they tend to prioritize their ideals over personal connections.
How to Love Them:
Being a person close them, you need to respect their ‘need for space and intellectual stimulation’. One needs to engage in meaningful conversations so that you can connect on their level and make them more comfortable with you, which will eventually turn them around you to create beautiful memories.
4. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Why They’re Hard to Love:
Capricorns are ambitious and disciplined they often prioritize work over relationships. It is in their nature to be practical which oversees their emotional expression.
How to Love Them:
One needs to support their goals and encourage balance in their life which can be possible through showing them vulnerability and ambition can coexist peacefully.
5. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Why They’re Hard to Love:
Geminis are known for their dual nature which makes them unpredictable and sometimes inconsistent. Their ever-changing moods can be exhausting for a partner.
How to Love Them:
You need to understand that it’s their versatility and hence, keep the relationship dynamic. Encourage their ideas so that they can sense your efforts and can contribute equally to match your energy levels.
Conclusion
Every zodiac sign has its strengths and challenges in relationships. What might make someone “hard to love” often stems from their unique traits and past experiences. By understanding and respecting their nature, love becomes a journey of growth for both partners.
